Be Someone You Would Want to Be Around

A lot of self-help books suggest getting rid of toxic relationships and environments in our lives to help our sense of contentment, drive and success. Whilst this may be necessary sometimes in order to short out cycles of negative behaviour and emotional abuse, you also have to look at what you bring to the table.

Are you a supportive and optimistic person? Are you fun? Do you take interest in the wellbeing and happiness of others and actively support it? These are really important questions, because it isn’t up to other people to make us feel good about ourselves and our lives. That’s on us. Maybe you can even be a spark in shifting negative patterns in your situations and relationships…give it a go!